Wedding Advice

• WEDDINGS AND DIETING
• A GROOMS CAKE - WILL IT BECOME A TRADITION?
• ARE YOU A MARRYMOONER
• WHAT'S HOT TIPS FOR 2012
• BRIDEZILLAS OF THE ZODIAC
• TOP REGISTRY TRENDS
• SHOES GLORIOUS SHOES - WHICH ONES DO YOU GO FOR?
• HOW TO DEAL WITH THOSE DIFFICULT SITUATIONS
• CHOOSE & PURCHASE YOUR WEDDING BOMBONIERE EARLY
• INVITES HAVE YOU IN A SPIN?
• INVITE DONT'S
• GOING GREEN
• CREATE AN INVITE MEMENTO
• DO I NEED A SEATING PLAN?
• FIND YOUR DREAM CAKE ON A BUDGET
• CHOOSING A PHOTOGRAPHER
• HOW & WHY OF CHOOSING A MAKEUP ARTIST

Your excited about your upcoming wedding but dread the fact that you need to lose a bit of weight? If so don't worry , you are among the majority of brides and grooms stressing about this issue.

To make matters worse, your entire planning process is filled with temptations that make reaching your ideal weight even more challenging.
First is the engagement party where all types of delicious foods and desserts are offered. Then, you move on to luncheons with the wedding party and family, the hen's night, rehearsal dinner, and so it goes.

The best thing you can do for yourself is to have a game plan in place, so when you do attend all these parties and gatherings you are proactive in your decisions & choices.
Start by sitting as far away from the tempting foods as possible, make healthier choices, for example choose the grilled fish instead of battered, replace the fries with salad. A good tip to reduce your intake of food is drink a large glass of water just before consuming a meal. This will give you the feeling of fullness & satisfaction before you've had the opportunity to fill up on all the food in front of you.

Additionally, remember that you will still need to eat, so instead of torturing yourself, allow yourself a greater number of healthy food items and less of the not so healthy. This way, you can still enjoy the event and taste the wonderful food without going overboard. For instance, if chocolate cheesecake is on the menu, your favorite dessert in the world, skip all the other desserts so you can enjoy a small slice.

Keep the wedding, reception, and honeymoon at the forefront of your mind. By talking about the event, keeping photographs in sight, and making this a prime focus, you will be giving yourself a reminder that overeating will not let you fit into your dress or tuxedo and ultimately make you miserable.
Instead, you want the discussions and thoughts of the wedding, reception, and honeymoon to be encouraging and keep you focused on achieving your goal.

Learn to eat differently, not just for the upcoming wedding but also for life. Start by changing your mindset about foods for example when you feel like something sweet grab something with natural sucrose like an apple to satisfy the craving, you'll be surprised how easy it is.
In addition to this, you do not want to deprive yourself of the foods you love. In this case, the key is food in moderation. For instance, if you love potato chips, first, switch to a low fat brand and second, cut back to half your normal serve.

One of the best things you can do for losing weight and for your overall health is to stop drinking alcohol. While an occasional glass of wine is actually good for the body, most alcoholic drinks, especially beer is loaded with calories. Again, if you do enjoy a beer or drink, you can still have one but cut back your intake go for a lite option if possible. Remember for every glass of beer, alcohol or even coffee you should have two glasses of water and get in the habit of drinking 8 glasses a day to help flush out all impurities
You would be amazed at how much impact alcohol has on your weight and what can be achieved just by cutting it out.

Processed sugar is also a big nasty and anywhere this can be cut from your diet the better. See how you get on by not purchasing sugar at all and you'll soon find you don't actually need it.

In addition to your new eating habits, get involved in a workout program. Check with your local gym and have them create a special program designed around your needs. If a gym's out of the question go for a brisk 20 minute walk 2 to 3 times a week. Not only does it help your fitness but also to clear your mind & reduce stress levels.

By the time, the wedding day arrives, you will feel and look like a million bucks, be glad that you made the step to change your diet and got your body into shape for a happier, healthier life.

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It appears as if a long-standing tradition in the southern United States of a groom's cake which is a gift from the bride to the groom is making an appearance in Australia.
Remember the red and gray cake in the shape of an armadillo in "Steel Magnolias" ? That armadillo was the groom's cake Shelby was planning to give her husband-to-be.

What is a Groom's Cake?

A groom's cake is generally smaller than the couple's wedding cake, single layered, and is decorated to reflect a hobby or maybe a sports interest of the grooms. For example, a groom who's a Footy fan may have a cake made into the colours of his favourite team. The groom who enjoys shooting formula 1 racing could have a groom's cake resembling a race car. If the groom likes to strum a few tunes, then a guitar groom's cake is perfect.

Not to be served to the guests while at the wedding reception. The history of a groom's cake originated as favors to be sliced up, placed into packages and given to departing guests. 
Apparently  single women at the wedding would take their piece of cake home and sleep with it under their pillows in the hopes they would dreaming of their future.

Popular Themes

Themes often chosen for groom's cakes include hobbies, sports, sports teams etc, pretty much anything goes. Because every groom is different, inspiration to make your groom's cake personal and unique is limited only to your imagination.

What Kind of Cake?

There are NO rules so any kind of cake will do. It is best, however, to have it made in your groom's favorite flavor, after all it is for him.

Where to Find a Groom's Cake

Thankfully a cake is a cake, so the simplest thing to having a groom's cake made is to consult with the same cake maker that is making your wedding cake. As long as they are open to unique and original designs, you can request anything you like.

When to Serve the Groom's Cake

As mentioned above, tradition dictates that the groom's cake is handed out to guests as favors when they leave the reception.

A common breaking of tradition means you can serve the groom's cake whenever you see fit.

Some couples like to share it with their wedding party at the final rehearsal. Some offer it to the bridal party after the reception to enjoy with drinks. Others like to keep it handy just in case there is not enough of the wedding cake to go around.

Perhaps the most romantic thing is to have the groom's cake at the place you intend on staying for your first night to enjoy as a symbol of the "sweet" start to your new life together.

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Todays engaged couples are constantly on the lookout for that something “different” and this new trend is no exception.

These unique couples are combining their ceremony, wedding reception and honeymoon all in the one location, a it's becoming more and more popular,  referring to themselves as marrymoons or marrimoons.

Marrymoons are typically smaller weddings shared only between the couples family & closest friends. With a very personal & intimate feel.

Because the guest  list is generally smaller, it becomes more cost effective and to the newly married couple, nothing beats spending a holiday with their nearest & dearest.

Don't be fooled though, organising an event like this isn't without it's challenges and a lot of work. Particularly when you have to arrange many different suppliers that need to come together at the same place and at the one time.

If you're up for an aditional challenge and are wanting that point of difference, maybe a Marrymoon is the thing for you?

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The dress:
Long full skirts, romantic lace, overlaid fabric and splashes of colour. Popular dresses include the delicate overlaying of fabrics such as chiffon, tulle and lace with a continuation of a vintage theme. Reception dresses will be popular and allow for the bride to have fun with a more manageable casual dress as worn by Kate Middleton.

The flowers:
Romantic wedding bouquets using soft colours such as ivory, or light pink, large flowers like peonies and adorned with details like pearls or crystals. Roses remain the most popular flower.

Colours:
The popular bold colours seen in 2011 will continue into 2012, like deep pink and bright yellow and bright orange. Try pairing up colours that don’t necessarily go together like hot pink and navy blue. They are sure to look fun and funky. Romance is said to make a comeback in 2012, using colours such as pale blue and beige. Brown also remains a popular choice.

The cake:
Flowers, sculptures, and large monogrammed letters are popular cake toppers. Cakes decorated with handmade icing flowers, and delicate scrollwork remain popular. Fondant covered cakes are most popular and so are the 4 -5 tier cakes. Dessert tables (similar to the lollie buffet) will be popular in 2012 and if Australia will follow from the American trends, so will “Groom’s Cakes” – where the bride surprises her husband with a cake especially for him. For example if your husband to be is a F1 fanatic, then perhaps a cake in the shape of his fav race car!

The invitation:
Handmade is HOT! Stationery adorned with ribbon, diamante, lace is in. Think romance and elegance.

The bomboniere:
Practical items will continue to be popular, but brides are looking for that ‘something different’ and love bomboniere that can double as place card holders, table decorations and match their theme.

When choosing a theme for your wedding ensure you carry it through from everything including the invitations, bomboniere and reception colours.

Whatever theme, or colours you chose for your special day, remember that going with a theme that is “YOU” is always the best theme to chose!

Article compiled by Amadore from various resources
occasionsniagra.com
allign.com
weddingaccessories.net
dizzidezine.com.au

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Astrology alerts you to each bride-to-be’s fatal flaws

From Tarot.com

It’s no surprise: planning that fairytale wedding can be less like a dream, and more of a drain! That’s why so many women find themselves taken over by a Dr. Hyde-esque persona: the wedding prep period can bring out the ugly and unleash anyone’s inner diva! As you approach wedding season, Astrology can give you a heads-up on the kind of surprises in store for you from the bride-to-be in your life.

Aries (March 21 to April 19)

The term “bridezilla” invokes a brash monster that will conquer entire cities without breaking a sweat. While this can describe the Warrior sign’s general M.O. when it comes to pursuing its goals, you’ll find your Aries lady’s approach to her upcoming wedding more impulsive than alienating. This Fire sign wants her perfect day to be a toned-down, casual affair, and since she’s not a huge fan of planning, she wants to get this project off the ground, quick! Be careful to respect her eclectic gift registry, however: if she says she wants power tools instead of a gravy boat, take her seriously!

Taurus (April 20 to May 20)

This earthy, touch-loving sign can be stubborn when it matters, and the Bull bride will fixate on one aspect of her wedding in particular: the food! This pleasure-seeking sign loves the sensual, sensory side of everything — the marathon rush-up to her wedding will be particularly enjoyable as she fills it with cake-tastings and catering company auditions, seeking the ultimate spread for her wedding banquet. And because Taurus is ruled by Venus, the planet of beauty, the Bull won’t skimp on dÈcor, either!

Gemini (May 21 to June 20)

The “runaway bride” archetype is oh-so-Gemini. This energetic Air sign fixates on new information, then loses interest fast. She won’t mind doing her homework by reading up on offbeat wedding traditions — that is, until she’s distracted by a shiny object! This bride is only unbearable when it comes to getting things done — or keeping focused on which groom will be waiting for her at the altar! While other “bridezillas” of the zodiac might have a streak of the control freak in them, Gemini is the one who will need the help of her bridesmaids — and even the groomsmen! — to keep her on track and get her to the church on time.

Cancer (June 21 to July 22)

This sign of history and family demands that every distant relative, every elementary school teacher she’s ever had and even the gal who makes her morning coffee be invited to the big day! Even though Cancer is one of the most nurturing signs of the zodiac, she’ll realize that her wedding is one occasion where it’s ok to be a little selfish — and she’ll take this to the hilt! The Cancer bride won’t sign off on any detail of the wedding unless it reflects her personal tastes or has sentimental meaning for her and her fiancÈ. She may be starting a new family, so this is her personal rehearsal on how to be the ultimate matriarch!

Leo (July 23 to Aug. 22)

The Lion sign is already quite at home in the spotlight, thank you very much, so she’s well-prepared for taking on the bridezilla role. A Leo bride generally views every day as her day already — she simply has a higher bling budget for this one! More than any other sign, the Leo bride will go overboard. It won’t matter that most of the wedding party will barely glimpse her shoes — she’ll want Swarvoski crystal detailing on the toe, at the very least! As long as she doesn’t break the bank before she throws the bouquet, her extravagance is mostly harmless. She’ll enjoy being the star, and when the big day is done, that famous Leo generosity will show through in her effusive thank-you notes.

Virgo (Aug. 23 to Sept. 22)

While Virgo is all about atmosphere and likes to control her surroundings, she is a surprisingly low-key bridezilla. That’s because this Earth sign prefers simplicity. The Virgo bride sees the understated elegance of stainless steel place-settings, and when she fills out her wedding registry, she’d prefer a washer-dryer combo over Waterford crystal wine glasses. Don’t be surprised if this service-oriented sign greets you as you arrive for the living room ceremony, even before she walks down the makeshift aisle!

Libra (Sept. 23 to Oct. 22)

In the zodiac, Libra is the hostess with the mostest, and her own wedding is the social affair to remember in her long career of party-throwing! Libra is second only to Leo in throwing the nuptial-planning into overdrive. She’ll make sure every detail of the day is perfect, and she’ll have plenty of time to do it: this glamorous sign may take at least a year simply shopping for her wedding dress. And even if her groom ditches out on the long engagement, Libra will still be sure to throw the party anyway!

Scorpio (Oct. 23 to Nov. 21)

This mysterious lady may surprise you with a last-minute invite to witness her exchange vows … with a man you may be meeting for the first time! Scorpio loves to have control, but her inner bridezilla will come out in subtle ways: she’ll probably spare you the agonizing details of wedding preparations, so you may show up to what you think is a cocktail party, only to be told you’re about to see the hostess getting hitched in a red dress! See, Scorpio prizes secrecy, so she sees little reason to include people on her plans until it’s time for them to show up.

Sagittarius (Nov. 22 to Dec. 21)

The Archer girl is the low-maintenance bridezilla of the zodiac. That’s because this adventure-loving sign will be more focused on a globetrotting honeymoon with her hubby than she will be on picking out table centerpieces. When this free bird sign decides to take the plunge, she’ll want to keep things flexible, so she’s just as likely to ask the captain of a cruise ship to marry her and her honey in international waters as she is to worry about a guest list. If she does decide to gather her near and dear to witness her nuptials, you can be sure the ceremony itself will be short and sweet and that the day will be all about the festivities that come after!

Capricorn (Dec. 22 to Jan. 19)

Beware: this exacting sign will bring her business-savvy to the big day, making her the bridezilla to be reckoned with! “Control freak” hardly describes the Capricorn bride’s approach to scheduling out a day of romance: she’ll give any professional wedding planner a run for their money! The Capricorn bride will have all the latest wedding-related iPhone apps installed, and on the big day she’ll most likely issue the wedding party an itinerary (scheduled down to the minute) that leaves little room for delay. But for all her foresight, this bridezilla’s wedding won’t be cheap: this sign wants only the best, from the fabric of the bridesmaids’ dresses to the sterling roses that adorn each antique table at the reception.

Aquarius (Jan. 20 to Feb. 18)

Aquarius is a bridezilla only because she’s all about doing things her way — and generally, that means scoffing at tradition. Aquarians typically have an alternative take on life-long commitment, with many of them preferring serial monogamy or sporadic relationships. But if the Water-Bearer does decide to walk the aisle, it will probably be on a whim, after several years of cohabitating with her partner — and their own children might serve as flower girl and ring-bearer! Or else she may wed her best pal when they both hit 40, to honor a decades-old promise they made to be each other’s permanent plus-one. In any event, the Aquarius lady will be bridezilla in insisting they do up the ceremony a little differently, and because she’s got her eye on the greater good, she’ll plan it so that every single guest has a day (or night!) to remember.

Pisces (Feb. 19 to March 20)

Calling all other signs of the zodiac: we need back-up! The starry-eyed Pisces bride is practically begging for a wedding planner — or a more organized friend (perhaps a Blackberry-toting Capricorn or a pragmatic Virgo?) to hold her hand and keep things real. The Pisces bridezilla isn’t demanding, she’s simply a little too in-tune with her dreams, and unfortunately, translating the fantasy wedding to (an affordable) reality isn’t the Fish sign’s strong point. Enlisting the fine eye of a Libra pal can help the glamour-loving Pisces bride settle on a dress she’ll be proud to glide down the aisle in, too.

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The Wishing Well

Many couples these days have been living together for a period of time before the popping of the big question, and already have most of the items needed for their home. This is why so many couples are now choosing to combine a registry of gifts with a Wishing Well towards any Wedding Wish that they may have, including cash contributions towards their Honeymoon, photography package, mortgage, charity or simply to pay off some off some of those nagging wedding bills!

As you prepare to start your married life together, this is a great opportunity to upgrade on the items you already have, and make a fresh start for the home at the same time. So even when a Wishing Well seems like the way to go over a gift registry, it is important to include the combination gift registry for those guests who are more inclined to want to purchase a heartfelt gift as a means of celebrating your marriage and making a contribution to your marital home.
Perhaps you are combining two fully stocked homes, so the key may be to add a few items that coordinate both of your styles in every room of the house, so that you can safeguard all of those loved treasures that may not blend in so well with your fiancé’s!

What they really want!

If you’re like most couples living in the here and now you are likely to want items on your registry that are completely unique. You might not be furnishing your first home and dreaming of a toaster, as your kitchen may already be fully stocked! More and more couples are now taking advantage of having flexibility on the items on their registry so they can have the gifts they really need.  It is also much more common now for couples to split the more expensive items into shares to make them more affordable for their guests.

Couples love to cook!

 Couples are taking more and more interest in the culinary arts, and having top quality cookware that will stand the test of time. An emphasis on upgrading to “the good stuff” is a top priority on today’s wedding couple’s registry. Perhaps the pots and pans that you have been using are wearing away at this point in your lives, or are the hand-me-downs from moving out of the parent’s nest for the first time! Why not add the top-rated pots and pans to your registry, as well as specialty items to make your kitchen five star!

For those of you that put on the chef’s hat in your kitchen and take pride in the preparation of meals, you can’t go past Essteele Ruffoni which is the newest addition to the Essteele range, which is a high quality, Italian designed copper cookware range.

Their home is their haven

A key trend with a couple’s registry is the focus and value on making the home their retreat. Everything from Egyptian cotton sheets, smooth table linens, and cashmere blankets for snuggling on the lounge. When it comes to the bathroom, couples are creating a welcoming spa-worthy oasis, for a place to relax. Even for the living areas, a greatly wanted item for the registry is a home theatre system which create a desired cinema-like experience. What more could you want than to snuggle up on your comfy lounge with a blanket and popcorn while watching your favourite movie on a big screen?!

Registering for their travels

Couples are becoming more keen on including experiences on their wedding list. In addition to Honeymoon and Contribution registries, couples are putting a big focus on including items such as spa treatments, scenic tours, wine tasting and even cooking lessons on their registry! Even luggage and other travel essentials such as carry-ons are a priority for wedding lists, as the couple that plan to explore the world together sees now as the perfect time and opportunity to get all they’ll need.

The online convenience!

One of the key reasons why couples chose to set up their registry online is due to the online convenience for both themselves and their guests. As more and more couples today are getting married overseas or have guests coming from interstate or overseas, it is becoming essential to have the ability to set up their registry online, and have their guests access and make purchases from their registry online. If you would like to sit in the comfort of your own home and add items to your registry from an extensive product range, and at a time convenient to you, then this is the way to go. There will be no need to spend endless hours in a department store writing down barcodes and being limited to that one store’s selection of gifts!

Thinking of the guests

Many couples are becoming concerned that a gift registry is no longer the standard when planning their wedding, and that they often feel bad asking for a gift from their guests. It is essential to keep in mind that the gift registry is there as much for the guest’s convenience as it is for yours. Not only can your guests view online all of the gift options that you have selected, but it also saves them the trouble of going to the shopping centers to purchase gifts when they may not have an idea on what you want or need. The last thing you and your guests want is to give you yet another toaster!

In thinking of the guests and making the process as easy as possible for the guests, couples have also become aware and efficient in looking for the best gift registry service which offers the most benefits to both the couple and the guests. Wedding Gifts Direct is the first and only registry company to offer couples FREE DELIVERY, which means no additional charges to the guests. Should you require gift wrapping, your guests will also benefit from the lowest gift wrapping charges around. Concerned about prices of the gifts that the guests will be charged? Not to worry! We also have a Price Matching Promise whereby we guarantee to match or beat the listed non-sale prices of Myer, David Jones and any specialist bridal registry company!

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When it comes to finding the right wedding shoes, style is usually chosen over comfort. Many brides prefer to wear trendy wedding shoes and risk hurting their feet, providing they match the dress and look great.

Comfort should also be something a bride looks for when it comes to wedding shoes because it's easy to forget that you'll be spending the whole day in them. 

You'll be required to do quite a bit of walking & standing on your wedding day for example - You'll walk to the altar, stand for photos, greet your guests and dance in those shoes. If they aren’t comfortable you might just regret choosing to wear them on your wedding day.

So what are your choices?

Ballerina Flats

Ballerina flats are comfortable shoes that can also look very stylish and they come in many different styles and colours, so it should be practically impossible not to find a pair that will match your dress and look good on your feet. Besides being incredibly comfortable they can be worn in summer, winter or any season.

Choose a white, ivory or cream pair with a little sparkle or ornament and you'll be amazed at how good they look. Ballerina flats can be worn with every style of wedding dress, even consider using them as a change of shoe to slip into at your reception.

If ballerina flats definately aren’t your thing and it's heels or nothing, then choose low or mid heels instead of high heels as they are usually more comfortable and select a material with a bit of stretch & give to allow for swelling feet.

Sandals



If you have a summer wedding or  planning a beach ceremony  you could choose to wear flip flops, bridal slippers or flat sandals. You could even be barefoot on your wedding day.

You should start searching for wedding shoes toward the end of the day when your feet start to swell. This way you're guaranteed to choose a pair of wedding shoes that will maintain their comfort exactly when you need it.
It's also a good idea to buy  wedding shoes some time before your ceremony and wear them in at home.

Although the most popular seasons for weddings are spring and summer, there are still a few couples that dare to have a winter wedding. Winter weddings can be very romantic – just imagine a cozy open fireplace at your reception.

If you reflect upon the fact, that winter weddings can be not only beautiful but you can also save lots of money (in the off – season venues have discounted rates), choosing winter for your wedding doesn’t seem like such a bad idea after all.

Naturally you want your winter wedding shoe to still look stylish but again it's important to find a pair of wedding shoes that also keep your feet warm and dry.

Sandals for winter weddings are totally inpracticle so when choosing the right winter wedding shoe it’s important to take some things into account.

The shoes must be comfortable, should keep your feet warm and dry and safe from slippery areas. The wedding dress also plays an important part when picking the right wedding shoe.

Victorian Boot

A great choice for winter wedding shoes are Victorian boots or shoes. A pair of Victorian boots work perfectly with vintage wedding themes and a heavily embroidered wedding dress. If you're  not a huge fan of lace, then satin boots will give the same effect . 

The best color for wedding boots are white or ivory, and if you have a coloured wedding dress simply choose a colour that will match your dress.

Another great winter wedding shoe is a pair of classic pumps. Classic pumps are solid shoes and you can wear them with any style of wedding dress. Pumps offer you some protection from the cold weather and they are a little bit dressier than flat shoes.

You can make a simple pair of pumps look even better if you dress them up with some beading or embroidery. You should always choose pumps with a heel height that you are comfortable to walk and stand in.

If you want a comfortable wedding shoe, that keeps your feet warm and dry, then your pick should be a classic ballet flat. Although many brides consider flats not dressy enough, ballet flats can be a great winter wedding shoe if you choose white, ivory or cream colored satin ones with some sparkle or decoration as mentioned earlier.

They are comfortable, offer you some protection from cold weather and they can be worn with almost any wedding dress. However, if you choose ballet flats take good care when walking on wet ground as water can soak in easily.

Whatever shoe you choose - high, low, flat, covered or not, give it a good going over when you're in the shoe shop. Ensure it contains all the important elements you'll require on your day and we hope no matter what your choice, it ends up being your very own glass slipper fit for a princess.

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We all want our wedding day to be the happiest day of our lives and while it usually is - The getting there can be a whole different thing!

Planning a wedding can become a major source of stress for a number of reasons - By tackling these situation head-on, you can end the chaos and enjoy the planning stages of your wedding and of course, the day itself. Here’s how.

Controlling Parents Taking Over

Generally parents have the best intentions and when such an important celebration involves their little girl they may become overly enthusiastic and can unintentionally cause more harm than good. This situation becomes overwhelming and is difficult to know how to handle.

When dealing with parents and future in-laws who disagree on guest lists, budgets and style issues, it’s important that you and your fiancé present a united front. In getting married, you’re establishing yourselves as a family unit so confront these things together and stand strong.

Some parents may even use their financial contribution as weight in influencing decisions. While you should always be grateful for their contributions if they don't quite fit in with your vision explain how you appreciate what they are doing and discuss what an alternative would mean to you. In the end your parents will only want to do what makes you happy.

If your parents are paying for the wedding, make sure the in-laws are aware of your budget. If they then want to increase the guest list beyond what’s budgeted, you can diplomatically request that they contribute the difference in cost.

on the topic of in-laws - If your mother-in-law tends to be the sort to offer unsolicited advice, let her know you appreciate her genuine interest in your day and find ways for her to contribute in areas that are non-crucial to your vision.
Remember this can be a great opportunity to build relationships with your fiancé’s family.

Above all be honest with your family; it’s your day, and it's ok to remind them of that. While compromise is often important, so is standing your ground on the issues that matter most to you.

Sibling Rivalry

Sadly sibling rivalry doesn’t disappear just because you’re happily planning a wedding; in fact, it’s usually just the opposite. Jealousy, meanness and indifference often wedge themselves between siblings during a time when they should be happy for one another.

When dealing with an attention craving sibling who is being troublesome simply because they are jealous of the attention you’re getting, it’s imperative you take the higher ground.

As hard as it may be include them in your planning and indulge them just a little. Acknowledge their contributions and give their ego a rub every now & then.

For the sake of a major argument give in to the minor demands where it doesn't matter and even though this may be the last thing you want to do, you might find failing to will cause your attention-starved sibling to do something very drastic to get the attention back!

If your sibling is acting withdrawn and indifferent, gently probe as to what’s wrong, carefully share your feelings in a positive reciprocal way rather than being accusatory. If your sibling is bossy and prone to take over, assign him or her an important task and let them know they have the job because you need someone you can trust.

Difficult Bridesmaids

Your bridesmaids have been chosen and you're excited to share your dream day with your closest girlfriends. As the wedding approaches there may be times when you feel members of your bridal party are failing to carry their weight or fulfill their obligations and this can become discouraging. In this situation, communication is essential.

In the case of a slack bridesmaid, acknowledge the demands on her time and ask how you can help. Maybe she’s concerned about the mounting expenses and hasn’t felt comfortable telling you. Maybe she’s swamped with other obligations and would benefit from someone else picking up some of the work load on her behalf. Or, maybe, she doesn’t know what she’s supposed to do. Don’t make assumptions about her lack of commitment. If your friendship takes a turn for the worse, immediately seek a conversation face-to-face. Be clear about your concerns and be willing to really listen to hers.

Your friendship should always be more important than the bridal-party role. If someone feels the need to withdraw from the wedding party, be gracious. And never write someone out of the party without talking to her, no matter how awkward the situation. Don’t be rash to fire a friend; commit to fighting for the friendship first. And if you encounter a jealous bridesmaid, don’t ignore her attitude.

Take the time to reassure her and invest in her. Remain humble and refuse to buy into the bridezilla culture. Share your concerns with your bridesmaids and be careful to not overwhelm them with wedding talk at every moment of the day. Remember this is your journey and no one has lived, breathed or dreamed it as much as you. Your bridesmaids have agreed to share your journey and support you as much as possible, so keep your demands realistic and work through any issues together.

Late or Missing RSVPs

So much time and energy is spent picking out your invitations, not to mention money and postage, and some guests don’t bother to RSVP. Annoying, we know and our first though is how rude!

If RSVPs don’t arrive, you have little option but to phone those who haven’t responded. Don’t make assumptions as to why you haven’t heard from them. Ask directly and matter-of-factly if they’ve received your invitation and if you should expect them.

Set a positive tone and expect that some will forget to respond, have sent responses that maybe got lost in the mail or they've been genuinely busy. If you can’t reach the invitees, you can do nothing but assume they are coming. It’s far better to plan for a few extra seats and confirm at a later date than not have enough room come time for a sit-down dinner.

Vendors that Fail to Deliver

You’ve done interviews, looked at photos, sought recommendations and seemingly covered all the bases when selecting vendors. And while most professionals aim to provide exceptional service, perfection is not guaranteed. Mix-ups can happen, and vendors can confuse orders, fail to provide what was promised or neglect to show up altogether. If this happens, do not panic.

On your wedding day, focus on quick problem-solving instead. Assume a genuine mistake, as vendors do want you to be happy, it's not good business otherwise. Nominate someone else to track them or the missing order down. Often, the professional is equipped to make a quick fix and will do whatever it takes to correct the situation.

Insist on signed contracts from vendors that clearly outline your particular requirements as this will help to ensure nothing is forgotten or overlooked. Remain focused on your day and take necessary action later.

When caught up in the hype of wedding planning, try to remain aware of conflicts brewing around you. Remain a humble bride, willing to sit down and address the concerns of family and friends.

If you’re clear, prepared, selective about picking your battles, and willing to compromise and improvise, even at the last minute, you’ll find that the common wedding gripes won’t wreak havoc on your day. You'll be less stressed, more inclined to take things as they come and enjoy your day for what it is - a declaration of your love for one another and a celebration in the joining of your two lives as one and from that moment the rest of your lives as husband and wife.

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There are two types of brides when it comes to purchasing wedding bomboniere.

The organised bride who finds and purchases their favours months in advance, and the bride who orders at the last minute.

If you find yourself one of the last minute brides and your chosen bomboniere isn't in stock and the wedding is only a week away, don't feel bad as there is so much to organise and you along with many before you, may have simply decided to include bomboniere in your wish list at the last minute. Just beware that  you may  have to settle for a gift less than ideal.

The favours are often left to the last minute because they simply aren't thought about until the guest list has been finalised. You're probably thinking, "Why bother with it when I don't know how many people are coming?!". Then in the last month there's a mad rush to try to secure the gifts that will fit in well with your wedding theme, are appropriate for your guests, plus don't push your budget over the edge.

Plan atleast 6 months before your wedding date to avoid unnecessary stress
Don't give yourself the unnecessary additional stress. Decide on your wedding favours at least 6 months before your wedding date.

Get in touch with your preferred supplier (hopefully us!) to see if your favourite gifts are in stock. Some suppliers may even take a deposit if you'd like to put a hold on them until numbers are in and like us, lay-by may even be an option (just ask for our terms).

There will always be a handful of guests who won't RSVP by the requested date. The most important thing is to have your wedding favours ordered at least a month before your wedding.
If there are any problems with ordering or shipping, then you've allowed yourself a bit of breathing room.

If you've ordered a few more gifts than you may actually need, that's probably better in the long run than ordering the amount you think you need or waiting until you know exact numbers. An organised bride is a happy bride!

Choosing the Wedding Favours
Wedding Favours are a very personal choice. Often the bride & groom want the wedding favours to be a reflection of themselves and their wedding theme. This is a good place to start and once you've chosen your wedding theme and/or colour scheme, you're over half way there. With your theme and colours in mind, the fun part begins.

Finding the perfect bomboniere for your guests.

The best place to start is definitely online

1.   Research is key and looking over a couple of large wedding bomboniere suppliers online is a great place to start. Many of them will have their favours sorted into different categories to make it easy for brides & grooms searching for particular themes and styles.

2.   Discuss with your partner whether you're after a gift that is practical, edible, elegant, unique, traditional or contemporary (or a combination).

3.  Set a bomboniere budget per guest and really try to stick with it, unless you see something you absolutely have to have!

4.  Start making a list of your favourites and make sure that they fit in with your budget, theme, colour scheme and style of bomboniere you've decided on. If it doesn't and your heart is set on it anyway, then go with your heart but maybe check with your mum or bridesmaids first for a second opinion.

5.  Choose a supplier you feel comfortable purchasing from and make sure that the products they are selling are of good quality. Watch out for suppliers selling cheap knockoffs. They may be cheaper but your guests are also likely to leave items such as these sitting on the table at the end of the night, so they are essentially a waste of money.

6.  Ask for a quote and find out if lay-by is an option. Request a sample of the product if you'd like to see it before placing a large order.

7.  Order your wedding favours at least one month before your wedding to avoid disappointment.

8.  Gift the wedding favours to your guests and enjoy the feeling of giving!

Happy wedding planning!

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Wedding invitation planning…you may not realise just how many steps there really are to organizing and preparing your invitations. From creating your guest list to finalising all your ceremony and reception details, many things affect your wedding invitation preparations.

There really are no absolute deadlines for many of the steps in your wedding invitation process. Although there are some general time frames that you may find helpful to avoid a last-minute rush as you already have so many other things on your mind.

Here is a general time line to use as a guide for your invitation planning:

 
9 MONTHS – 1 YEAR

** Begin working on your guest list so you will know how many wedding invites (and maybe save the dates) to eventually order. 
Generally one per single adult, couple or family invited is typical.

** Start looking around and investigating choices so you can narrow down your favourites when the time comes. Be sure to order samples, which are usually blank, so you can personally see the paper and design.

** If you're planning to mail out save the date cards to guests, begin searching for your preferred design of them as well.

7 to 8 MONTHS

** If you will be sending save the dates, place your order based on the number of guests to whom you will be mailing them as they are optional.
** Review sample wedding invitation verses and give some thought as to how your wording will read.

6 MONTHS

** If sending save the dates, prepare and mail them.

** Select your wedding invitation design and gather all the details that will be printed on them such as date, times, name and address of location(s), etc.

** Determine what invitation enclosures or extras you will want to add  – reception cards, response cards, pre-printed return address on envelopes, direction/map cards, decorative envelope seals, colored lining for inner envelopes, matching thank you cards or informal notes, etc. Some of these options may not be available depending on your chosen style so best to find that out early so you can make adjustments. You may also be able to arrange matching menu, table and place cards with your chosen design.

** If you are including response cards, check with your dinner location to see how far in advance they need your final guest count so you can select the RSVP date that will be printed on them (typically 2-3 weeks before wedding). You also need to decide whose address will be printed on the response envelope or postcard meaning they will receive the replies.

4-5 MONTHS

** Finalise your wording and if necessary place your wedding invitation order. Remember to add extras so you don’t run out if there are last-minute guests to invite and you are left with a souvenir. If the option is available, order some extra envelopes just to be safe.

** Review your guest list to make sure you have current addresses for everyone.

** Custom wedding stamps for mailing your wedding invites are also available from Australia post and add an even more personal touch. NOTE - Be sure to have one of your ready-to-mail invitations weighed at a Post Office BEFORE you purchase any postage stamps to make sure you are using the correct amount for each invitation.

3-4 MONTHS

** Fold and/or assemble your wedding invitations, if necessary.

** Hand address mailing envelopes and write guest names on inside envelopes, if they are included.

** Purchase and apply postage stamps to the response card envelopes or response postcards, if they will be included.

** Assemble all wedding invitation pieces and insert them into already addressed envelopes.

** Take one fully assembled and sealed invitation to the Post Office to have it weighed to determine the correct amount of postage needed.

** Purchase your stamps or order custom wedding stamps with appropriate postage amount required for mailing.

6-8 WEEKS

** Seal the envelopes, apply postage stamps and mail them all at the same time directly at a Post Office location.

3-4 WEEKS

** Prepare and mail any other wedding-related invitations…rehearsal dinner, post-wedding brunch, etc.

** Keep track of the response cards as they are returned by checking off their names from your guest list.

2-3 WEEEKS

** Contact any guests who didn’t mail back their response cards.

** Provide final guest count to reception/dinner location.

Thank you cards should typically be mailed out about a month after the wedding but no more than three months after.

Again, this is just a guideline for your wedding invitation process and will hopefully help to keep you organised and stress free during all of your wedding planning.

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Here is a list of don'ts when it comes to invitations. For easy reference, they are arranged in order as to when each item may fit into your preparations.

** Don't order the same number of wedding invitations as the number of guests on your list - those numbers won't match. eg: . 
generally one invitation per single adult, couple or family invited is required and DONT forget to order a few extras!

** Don't exclude wedding party attendants, parents and the officiator from your invitation mailing list. Even though you know they will be attending, it is still proper to send them an invitation if only to be kept as a souvenir.

** Don't finalize your order until you have proofed everything several times and had someone else also thoroughly review all the information.

** Don't abbreviate words except for name titles such as Mr., Mrs., etc. Names of streets, cities and states should not be shortened but instead entirely spelled out.

** Don't include your gift registry information or monetary gift request on your invites. This type of information should be spread by word of mouth or you may want to include an insert listing your wedding website if you have created one. Websites are a great place to reveal that type of information to guests.

** Don't print the words 'no children' on the invitations even if that is your desire. There are many ways of expressing your wishes without seeming harsh. In this case along with you heart felt request, exclude the childrens names as well as the phrase 'and family' on the envelope which will give an initial hint about your feelings on children at your wedding.

** Don't stuff the envelopes until after they have been hand addressed to avoid an uneven writing surface and making indentations on your invitations.

** Don't use printed mailing labels when it comes to addressing your invitation envelopes. Names and addresses should be handwritten according to etiquette and for a personal touch.

** Don't include adult children living at home on the family invitation since anyone age 18 and older should receive their own invite and personally addressed envelope.

** Don't include response card envelopes without postage already attached. It's a common courtesy so guests can easily mail them back.

** Don't mail your invitations without listing a return address so the Post Office can return any undeliverable ones.

** Don't guess as to how much postage is needed for mailing your wedding invites. Have one ready-to-mail invitation weighed at the Post Office to find out the proper amount required for each one.

** Don't overlook sending thank you cards and should be sent to everyone that received an invitation including your parents also to all those who attended or participated in your wedding or remembered you with a gift. Your thank you notes will be greatly appreciated .

When it comes to your wedding invitations, the DON'TS are just as important as the DO'S.

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In today’s society, green can mean so much more than just the color of your wedding invitations. 'Going green' is a very popular topic these days even when it comes to wedding planning and can start with your invites. There are a number of easy ways to be more environmentally conscience with your invitations some of which may even save you some money.

The biggest way is having your invitations printed on recycled paper stock. Designs on recycled papers have come a long way in giving you some gorgeous choices.

Another way to 'think green' with your wedding invitations is to simply reduce the amount of paper used for your invitation ensemble. Suggested ways to save on paper include:

* Select an invitation style that comes with only one envelope for mailing thus eliminating the familiar inner envelope. An example of this style is a self-mailer invitation where the envelopment wraps around all of your pieces and seals up to become the actual mailing envelope. Another benefit of having only one envelope is that you will save on your handwriting time. This style may require extra postage depending on its overall size.

* Use a response postcard to eliminate the need for a return mailing envelope and to save on postage.

* Opt for a seal and send wedding invitation which gets mailed without a separate envelope. This economical all-in-one design folds up and seals into its own self-mailing piece. This style also has a response postcard attached for easy removal and mailing back by your guests.

* Choose a smaller sized single-panel invitation card instead of a larger folded or layered style.

* Include your reception information on your invitation to avoid including a separate reception card (having less weight in the envelope may even save you from affixing extra postage). If space allows, your dinner and reception details can be added on as extra lines aligned with the rest of your verse printing, or some invitation styles allow the option of a corner copy – 3-4 lines that appear in the bottom left or right corner usually in a smaller sized font. There may be a small extra charge for corner copy which is not recommended for narrow or tea length styles.

* Set up a personal wedding website to give your guests easy access to online maps, directions, area hotels, gift registry information, etc., instead of printing extra invitation insert pieces.

Today it is easier than ever to make earth-friendly choices when selecting your wedding invitations without sacrificing quality and style. Every little bit helps when it comes to saving our planet and some of your choices might even save you some ‘green’ (money) in the process.
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As a record of important details from your special day, your wedding invitation is uniquely a one-of-a-kind remembrance. It's more than likely that your invitation will be stored away in your wedding album so what can you do to keep it special?

Why not create a memento of your wedding invitation that is more permanent and can be easily displayed in your home as a special remembrance. Especially since all the formal details of your wedding day appear within your invitation text – date, time of ceremony, time of dinner/reception, name and address of ceremony location, name and address of dinner/reception locale – as well as maybe a special verse or quote chosen by you and your fiancé. The invitation design itself may also be symbolic of the colors or theme of your wedding.

Having your invitation wording permanently imprinted on a keepsake item is a wonderful way to uniquely commemorate your wedding day. Here are some suggested items that can be engraved with your wedding invitation verse:

** Photo Album – A great way to personalize a wedding album is to have your invitation wording elegantly engraved on the front cover. This way every time you look through your cherished wedding pictures you will be able to see your invitation verse too.

** Wedding Invitation Frame – Create a lasting symbol by using a beautiful glass frame to showcase your favorite wedding photo as well as feature your delicately etched invitation verse.

** Glass Block – A simple, but elegant, glass or lucite sculpture piece can be engraved with your wedding invitation text creating an exquisite symbol of your special day.

** Commemorative Plate – Easily hung on a wall or placed on an easel for table-top display, a decorative plate engraved or etched with your invitation verse will make a wonderful memento for years to come.

With all of your planning and preparations, creating a wedding invitation keepsake may not be a high priority before your wedding, but this is easily something you can have designed later since you may even receive one of these personalized items as a wedding gift.

Your wedding is without a doubt one of the most important days of your life so give some thought to creating a lasting souvenir of your wedding invitation to preserve all the details of your special day. As the years go by, you will undoubtedly be glad you did.

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Do I need a Seating Plan?
If you have a small, informal reception, you may not feel you need a plan. However for larger numbers, or a sit down meal, both you and your guests may benefit from a seating plan. Guests are saved from a mad panic of trying to find a seat on a table with their friends/family and you can place people where they’ll be happiest! The wedding meal may last for 2-3 hours and is a significant part of the day. If your guests are sitting with people they get along with, it will make a big difference to their overall enjoyment of the day.

There are a number of options for the seating plan:
• No plan at all – best for stand up buffets or small and informal events.
• Assign guests to tables – you allocate guests to tables but the choice of seat is theirs.
• Assign guests to seats – you specify the seats at which each guest will sit.

If you remember only one thing…
Do what you think would make you and your guests most comfortable.

The Top Table Dilemma
While the traditional top table (Bride and Groom seated at a long table flanked by the wedding party) is still favoured by most, alternatives are often being introduced as family structures get more complicated. See the traditional layout as pictured above.

There are alternative arrangements – these are useful when parents have split up and are possibly with a new partner. Alternatively, you may want to avoid the top table altogether and have a romantic table for two, or sit with other friends/family.

Top Tips for Other Tables
1. Seating tables with just one family group will let them relax, but won’t do much to encourage mingling. However, a table where no one knows anyone else might be a bit daunting for most people! Try and arrange a mix on each table – so everyone knows a few people. By thinking about guest’s ages and interests you can make sure that each table is likely to get on and have fun!

2. Where to sit singles can also create a dilemma. On one hand you might want to try out a little matchmaking, but on the other, this could be rather uncomfortable and awkward for your guests (it might be very obvious too!). Certainly avoid a ‘singles’ table but generally do whatever you feel is best for your guests.

3. If you are using round tables, the general etiquette is to seat males and females alternately around the table. If you are using long tables, seat couples opposite one another and then alternate male/females along the table.

4. The tables closest to the Bride and Groom should be reserved for the closest friends and family.

5. Give each table a name or number. Table names could be themed - for example people, objects or places that are relevant to you as a couple. Names also remove the perceived hierarchy of tables. You should create a name card for each table (your venue may do this for you) so that guests can easily find their table.

6. If you are assigning guests to specific seats you should create name place cards. These could also show menu choices (if you are offering them) or indicate vegetarians. The waiting staff will really appreciate this and it will allow them to give a more seamless service. You should also give a paper copy of your plan to the venue so that they can see where people are seated.

Creating the Plan
Start arranging your seating plan early. You can start doing this before all your RSVPs have come in as most of your close friends and family will probably be definitely attending, even if they haven’t formally replied yet.

To begin creating your plan, get a general idea from your venue how tables will be arranged in the room, determine whether you’ll be using round or long tables or a mixture of both, and work out how many people you can sit at each table.

Arranging the plan can take a long time and might involve numerous revisions. Many people cut up pieces of paper for each guest and table and use these to try out different layouts. Thankfully, over the last few years software (web-based, for download or even Excel spreadsheets) has become available to make the task simpler. It can save you not only hours of your time but also reduce the stress in the lead up to the big day by simplifying last minute changes.

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1. Start by looking through magazines, brochures and the Internet for ideas. Find the designs that speak to you, and make a scrapbook. Don't worry if you can't find a cake that is exactly what you want, mix and match elements from different cakes to create a cake that is uniquely you.


2. It's time to start searching for your cake maker. Wedding directories are a great way to find local suppliers, but also look to your friends and family for recommendations. Make a shortlist of suppliers and start phoning around. Most cake makers will provide you with a complimentary cake tasting, stay away from the ones that don't. Once you are happy with what they can offer you, book in for your tasting and consultation.


3. Attend your consultation/tasting. Bring all your ideas, magazines and things that have inspired you, and have a good chat to the cake maker about what you want, style, colours and decorations. This will help the cake maker to give you a quote. Also consider things like delivery and set-up fees.


4. When booking your tasting make sure to mention any particular flavours you are interested in, so that the cake maker can have them at the ready for you, then all that is left is to enjoy.



Finding a wedding cake on a budget


You might think that a beautiful wedding cake is out of reach if you have a limited budget. It certainly doesn't have to be.
There are several ways of reducing the price of your cake without having to sacrifice on quality. Here are a few tips.


1. By limiting the amount of intricate decoration you can often shave $100s of the price.


2. Sugar flowers take a lot of time to make and the price tag will show this. Substituting sugar flowers for fresh flowers can help keep the price down while still having a great looking cake.


3. A tall, layered 1 tier cake can really have the wow factor. Decorate with fresh flowers and a stand out colour icing, and you'll be sure to have your guests talking. A sheet cake iced in the same colour icing can be cut up and served to the guests.


4. You can save on set-up and delivery fees by having family or a friend pick up you cake and set it all up for you.


5. Cake toppers can be expensive, especially if they are custom made. Save money by borrowing one from family or use fresh flowers. Or if a topper is not too important to you, two "wedding bands" can be just what you need to top it all off nicely, and you can get them for less then $10 from a craft shop.


6. A fake cake can also be an option of you would still like a beautifully adorned cake without the price tag. The cake will be made from polystyrene, then iced and decorated like a traditional wedding cake. By making the top tier in cake, you can still have a cutting ceremony, and a sheet cake can be cut up for your guests.


7. A cupcake tower can be elegant and chic, and by having the cupcakes double as favours for the guests you can save money as well.

Information Courtesy of Marit from The Cake Shoppe
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Your wedding is a special day that you will remember for the rest of your life and you don’t want to leave it to just anyone to capture it for you. Here are a few items you should consider when selecting a photographer for your day.

•Registered business name with an ABN – Photographers with a registered business name and ABN are subject to associated business and taxation laws, which will offer you much more protection. If there does happen to be a dispute a registered business name will enable you to seek assistance from the Department of Consumer Affairs etc.

•The photographer will be with you most of the day, so one of the most important considerations is how well you think you can work with the person. If dealing with a studio, ask to meet the photographer who will be assigned to your wedding and ask to see a portfolio of that individuals work before signing any contracts.

•Look at as many photos as possible – Most photographers will show you the best of the best, so ask to see whole weddings or a larger number of photos

•Ask about equipment – Questions about equipment may start to confuse you, however the most important items to note are that the person is using SLR equipment (brand is not relevant) and has backups of all items.

•Make sure there is a clear contract which outlines rights, responsibilities (of all parties) and inclusions. Make sure it is very clear what is included in the quoted price and what’s not. Ask for a clear price list on the items which aren’t included.

•Find out where the photos are printed – Photos printed at professional labs are still far superior to any home based system. Also ask whether you will have the choice of what photos are printed, whether they are printed in Matte or Gloss, with or without borders etc. (Again make sure this is documented)

•If the photographer is attending the reception ask about their expectations. Weddings are expensive and photographers should consider it a privilege to be a part of your day. If you choose to provide a meal and drinks, I’m sure it will be appreciated, however you should not feel under any obligation to provide anything. Avoid people who insist they must be supplied.

•Discuss the style of photos you like with the photographer and whether they can provide them. Its quite common for wedding photos to have soft focus or similar effects applied to them, if you don’t like this ask that the photographer supply the images in the style you prefer. If they wont or cant, go somewhere else!

•Be wary of Photographers/Studios who are openly critical of their opposition. This is a negative approach to business and may be an indicator of how they will interact with you on the day.

•Ask how the photographer will deal with bad weather

•Ask about copyright, reprint rights etc.

•Ask if they have current insurance

What equipment would a professional photographer be using??

Smaller print sizes can hide significant flaws with photos that will not become apparent until you attempt to print that image at a larger size. Out of focus, lack of sharpness, back focusing can easily be hidden at small sizes, blow it up and suddenly that nice photo you wanted on canvas in your living room has to be thrown out because it looks pretty ordinary.

I cant advise regarding other brand equipment but with Nikon I suggest you look for people who are using pro level equipment as their main camera. Its OK to have a lower level camera as a backup but probably shouldn't be relying on that as their main.

With Nikon its fairly easy to identify which cameras are pro level. All pro level cameras have model numbers with D and three digits or D with one digit (and possibly an X) IE, D200, D300, D3, D2X.

Another way to tell the difference is that pro level cameras have no program or auto modes, the photographer has to think for themselves. Consumer cameras will have a number of program modes such as sports, landscape and portrait.

Lenses are also very important. Generally most lenses under $1,000 are not very sharp, there are some exceptions though. Most professionals would be using lenses which have an aperture of F2.8 or less. These lenses are worth a lot of money however the results are significantly superior to the cheaper lens both in colour and sharpness.

Lenses are probably more important than the camera model, a good photographer will still get fantastic results on the consumer cameras using professional lenses.

So when interviewing photographers look for people using pro level camera bodies as well as pro level lenses, that enlargement you wanted just may depend on it.

Some helpful tips when choosing locations

How much more would your wedding photos mean to you if they were taken in the place you first met??

Consider these things when thinking about your photo locations

Where did you first meet?

Where did the proposal happen?

Where do you like to spend together?

Your favourite restaurant or hotel?

Where was your first date?

If you think about it you can come up with some locations which will have some meaning to you and will add so much more to your photos.

Don’t be afraid to ask venues, most will be more than happy to let you have photos particularly if you explain why you would like to have them taken in a particular spot.

Regards

Ricky

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At the end of your Special Day when the vows have been said & the last bubbles of the champagne have been sipped, images captured by your photographer provide lasting visual memories of one of the most important days of your life. Don’t risk looking washed out & bland, of all days this is the one when you want to look your absolute best. If you want your Wedding images to look like they’ve just come out of the latest Bridal magazine make a booking with a professional makeup artist.



Getting started
Start flicking through magazines, looking at different styles of makeup. Think about whether you want to look soft & natural or would you rather go for something sensual & smokey. Think about your own style are you a girl who usually wears a lot of makeup. What time of the day are you getting married. Morning Brides usually look more radiant with a natural style. Evening Brides can go with something more dramatic. It is important to look at makeup images of girls with similar features to you. For example there is no point comparing yourself to an olive skinned brunette with large brown eyes if you are a blonde with blue eyes. Place your favourite pics in a file to take along to your makeup trial.

How to find an artist.
The best way to find a makeup artist is by personal recommendation, ask family friends & work colleagues. Ask other professionals who are helping you with your Special Day. The wedding industry has a valuable network of people who can assist you with recommendations.
Many states have on line wedding directories which list various artists with varying price ranges & skills. Bridal magazines also have a number of artists both advertising & providing services for the magazine.
Check out individual websites until you find a makeup artist with a style you like. Most makeup artists can be contacted directly. Ask if they use professional product, a reputable artist will only use professional product. Professional product results in a luminous long lasting makeup, which is what you need for your wedding makeup.

 

When to book.
Many popular makeup artists can be booked up to 1 year or more in advance. If you are looking for someone special it is important to start looking 10 – 12 months prior to your Wedding date. This also allows you time to start researching the type of look you wish to achieve on the day.
Firstly check out the website if they have a contact page use it to check on pricing & availability. You can also check out their portfolio on line. Ask plenty of questions:

• Have they done any editorial work 

• How many years have they been practicing

• Do they charge a travelling fee

• Do they charge extra for lashes

• Is there a surcharge for Sundays or Public Holidays

• What do they charge for flower girls

If you are happy with the answers book in for a trial. This gives you a chance to meet with your makeup artist to see if you feel comfortable with them. Remember you will be spending one of the most important days of your life with them. Make sure they are friendly, approachable & professional. Most makeup artists will ask for a deposit to confirm your booking. Ensure you are given a written receipt that you can keep with the rest of your wedding information.



The importance of a trial.
A makeup trial is a must at this time the makeup artist can perfect the look you wish to achieve for you & your Bridal Party. It is important to bring along any examples of the makeup you like from magazines, picture of your bridesmaids’ dresses & swatches of material, plus a picture of your dress.
If you have no pictures your makeup artist should have examples for you to look through. This helps you both understand the look you wish to achieve.
Trials are vital for girls with skin sensitivities, it is helpful to know if your are likely to react to any of the products so appropriate changes can be made. Remember this is the time to tell your makeup artist what you do & don’t like, it is paramount that you both communicate effectively.
When you achieve a look you are both happy with your artist should record all the colours & products used on face maps & by taking a photograph. This ensures that the makeup you loved at your trial is the makeup you will receive on your Wedding Day.
After your trial it is important to report back to your makeup artist as to how the makeup lasted:

• Did your skin become shiny.
• Did the colour on your eyes fade.
• Did you decide you wanted a deeper hue of lipstick.

A good makeup artist will value your feedback; wanting to provide you with the best possible outcome for your Special Day.


Article by Maria Cunningham Professional Makeup Artist.


Maria offers a very generous $75.00 saving to BDB members - Find her voucher here or visit her website